A father’s departure was set to break us — Until mom’s ultimatum changed everything


My father is fifty-seven now—just a couple of years older than my mom. I’m thirty, with a family of my own and a little son. You’d think by now we’d all grown up—me, my parents—at least, that’s what I always believed.

But a few months ago, it felt like the ground disappeared beneath my feet. My father—a strong, gray-haired man with the posture of a soldier—suddenly announced he was leaving. He wanted a divorce.

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I didn’t find out right away. At first, it was whispered by my mother. Then, from my father himself. My first reaction was complete shock. How? The man who had always seemed like the very image of reliability and common sense was suddenly ready to abandon my mother, our family, our home in Mytishchi. Was it infidelity? A new passion? What else could push him to this?

We had never been in need. The apartment, the Lada in the garage, a steady income—my parents built everything together, thoughtfully. I was proud of them. Especially of my father, who taught me what it means to be a real man—honest, strong. And now this.

It turned out there was no mistress. He was simply fed up. Tired of the daily routine, the chores, the responsibilities—everything felt suffocating. So he decided to leave.

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The most surprising part? My mother didn’t throw a fit. She listened calmly, gave him a few days to think, then called him for a talk.

“There will be no divorce,” she said firmly. “Not yet.”

But she allowed him to leave, on one condition: for six months. He wasn’t allowed to take anything from their shared possessions—no car, no money. Only his personal things. Everything else would stay.

And she added:
“If after six months you still want a divorce, I will sign without a fight.”

A few days later, I met my father. He looked… different. Free, yet lost.

He rented a tiny studio apartment on the outskirts, took a couple of bags of clothes and an old toolbox. His salary was just enough for bread and bills. But he believed this was the start of a new life.

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What happened next, I learned later.

Dad created profiles on dating sites, wandered bars, hit on women near the metro. He acted like a young guy. But reality hit hard. Women glanced at his age, asked about work, income, housing, car.

What could a man living in a rented studio with no savings say? Even older women quickly lost interest when they realized he had no property, no capital.

Once, he went on a third date with a woman who brought along two kids. They suggested a walk in Gorky Park, ice cream, toys… That evening he spent nearly his entire paycheck. Back in his empty apartment, he realized he couldn’t keep this up.

Four months passed.

Dad was exhausted—from constant cooking, washing, the silence. From seeing lights in other windows, knowing someone was waiting for them, but not for him.

One day, he gave in.

He bought chamomile flowers and a box of chocolates with his last rubles. Knocked on the family door.

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When mom opened, he fell to his knees, crying—for the first time in his life—and whispered:

“Forgive me. I don’t want to search for happiness elsewhere anymore. My home is here. My family is here.”

Mom let him in.

At first, they lived apart—carefully, like strangers. But slowly the ice melted. Mom forgave. Dad changed.

He started helping around the house—cooking, cleaning. He softened, became more attentive. Gratitude for a second chance shone in his eyes.

Six months later, they hosted a family dinner. My wife and I were invited. That’s when dad shared everything he’d been through.

Afterward, I asked mom about it. She just smiled.

“Sometimes a man has to find out what he really wants on his own. The important thing is to give him that chance without breaking or humiliating him.”

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Now, I see my parents in a new light. I admire my mom—her patience and wisdom. And my dad, who found the courage to come back.

In life, mistakes happen. What matters is recognizing them in time and having the strength to return to where you’re truly wanted.

This piece is inspired by stories from the everyday lives of our readers and written by a professional writer. Any resemblance to actual names or locations is purely coincidental. All images are for illustration purposes only.